Baby boomer dilemma: Age in place or make the move

Baby boomers have been facing a dilemma for years, but a new twist for an “old” problem has taken hold: aging in place.

And it’s not just a choice but more of a movement for the newer kind of senior. The age-old question, (pun intended), “Where should I live during my golden years?” prompts a crucial decision: remain in your current home or transition to a more manageable residence such as a condo or townhouse. The answer can have a monumental impact on seniors and their loved ones.

Settling in a long-cherished home provides incredible benefits. The security and comfort of staying in place are priceless. The feeling of independence, when surrounded by familiar faces and places, is irreplaceable. Being rooted in a long-loved neighborhood, where social networks are already developed, helps reduce the risk of isolation. However, staying in the home may necessitate substantial home renovations to enhance safety and accessibility. 

These changes could mean basic upgrades, such as adding grab bars in bathrooms and brightening up the lighting, or more major renovations, like widening doorways or converting a main floor office into a bedroom for single-level living. These adjustments, highlighted by the Cleveland Clinic, aim to enhance the comfort and safety of aging at home, though their expenses should be carefully considered alongside the potential costs of relocating to a more accessible dwelling. 

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Homes not designed for aging may pose safety risks. Uneven floors, poor lighting and multi-floor living can be disastrous for the elderly. The sheer maintenance of some homes requiring upkeep can be challenging for even the youngest homeowner, which brings up the topic of home maintenance. The grass still needs mowing, the snow shoveled, and repairs need to be made. Finding a dependable handyman is a critical member of your aging-in-place team.

Staying in the family home with limited interaction with others can also contribute to adverse mental and physical health outcomes, including depression and anxiety. Maintaining connections with family, friends, and community groups becomes crucial in mitigating these risks. Embracing technology, such as video calls and social media platforms, serves as an effective tool for fostering and sustaining meaningful relationships despite physical distance. These digital avenues not only bridge geographical gaps but also enrich the social fabric of individuals’ lives, promoting overall well-being and quality of life.

Having a home health plan and access to medical care also needs careful consideration. Home helpers or caretakers play a pivotal role in assisting with daily tasks like meal preparation, household chores, and personal care. Is there a family member who will be helping, or will someone need to be hired to fill this role? Regional accessibility, insurance coverage and financial feasibility are all significant factors when evaluating health care options.  

Choosing to age in place often hinges on maintaining independence – a core desire for many individuals as they grow older. With adequate support and home modifications, seniors can sustain their autonomy in familiar surroundings. Yet, this decision requires careful consideration, balancing personal freedom with essential safety and health needs.

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There are numerous national resources that offer valuable insight and guidance for individuals contemplating aging in place or relocating that can be a good resource.  Seniors can look into regional and local options as well.  AARP, renowned and known for its Aging in Place Checklist, offers diverse resources, assists in evaluating homes and implementing essential modifications. This organization provides comprehensive tools tailored to seniors’ needs, ensuring informed decisions regarding housing choices.

The Eldercare Locator, a public service under the U.S. Administration on Aging, stands as a vital resource, featuring a nationwide directory of services dedicated to older adults. It connects seniors and their families with crucial support systems, fostering independence and well-being within local communities.

The National Association of Area Agencies on Aging supports a robust network of organizations committed to enhancing seniors’ quality of life through community-based solutions. These agencies play a pivotal role in facilitating aging in place initiatives, promoting social engagement, and ensuring access to essential services.

These resources collectively empower seniors with the knowledge and tools necessary to navigate the complexities of aging in place versus relocation, aligning individual preferences with practical considerations for sustainable living arrangements.

Choosing whether to age in place or relocate to a more accessible residence is a deeply personal decision influenced by health, financial circumstances and available support systems.

Evaluating options involves weighing the potential advantages and drawbacks of each, such as the feasibility of home modifications and the availability of caregiving services. Factors like the risk of social isolation add complexity to the decision-making process. National resources offer valuable guidance and support, ensuring individuals can make informed choices that align with their preferences and needs for safety and comfort.

Many cities offer senior benefits as well. The City of Eden Prairie has a robust senior program that offers a senior emergency repair program, Meals on Wheels, and more. 

Whether you are moving to a new and happening senior living facility or choosing to stay at home, the key takeaway to ensuring a positive experience is having a strong support system before making major changes.   

Editor’s note: This is the third installment of a monthly real estate column written by Kelley Regan, aimed at providing Eden Prairie residents with insights into current real estate trends. Regan has lived in Eden Prairie since 2004 and has over 28 years of experience in real estate, focusing on senior housing, first-time homebuyers, and negotiation strategies. Beyond her professional role, she volunteers with local organizations, including The PROP Shop and the Eden Prairie Historical Society.